Remembering Ken

Life didn't always come easy for you
But your patience and faith carried you through.

Soft Spoken in word, but strong in deed,
you were anxious to help, any in need.

Gentle kindness you showed in many ways,
Snow plowing, weeding, too many to say.

Loving a husband, faithful and true,
Also a son, a father, grandfather too.

You loved cattle and farming the land,
enjoying hard work you did with your hands.

Vanilla ice cream was never safe,
if you were around for "just one more taste!"

The biggest smile, ever to see,
When your face was filled with glee.

Our time with you went by so fast,
But grateful for memories the will always last.

We selfishly wish to have had you longer,
but we are happy you're with your Heavenly Father.

Words cant describe how much you are missed,
But more pain and suffering we'd never have wished.

How thankful we are for the time that we had.
With a wonderful husband, "Pa-Pa" and Dad.

Love you,
Laureen

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